Monday, July 31, 2023

International Memoirs


What were my favorite moments of the international?  The answer may surprise you.  Here’s my top 10 moments for the 2023 International memoirs book.  

10.  Camper cocktail time. Ok. Maybe we really had Brie cheese and Gatorade and a few sips of wine, but by far the best moments of the week were catching up and sharing riding stories around the camper dinner table, after the show was over. Thanks Tami and Terry for all the laughter and inspiration. And, to Mariah, for sharing best practices over lunch, for a seat and hands consult. 🍷

9. Learning the definition of “shart”. Truth is, I really did know the definition. But, to hear teacher Carol seriously provide the dictionary lesson was beyond hysterical.  And,  yeah … don’t ask why this was even a topic!  πŸ˜œ And, no, I did not shart! πŸ’© 

8. Cake drive pickup. An early morning drive provided a bit of respite from the show grounds, but more than that, what a gorgeous day to drive along the rolling Tenneessee hills - what a view along 231 from Murfreesburo to Shelbyville and back. I turned up the music, sipped my latte and metaphorically stopped to smell the roses. ‼️ Ahhhhh! 

7.  Sharing a show jacket. Finally, after two years Mariah wore the “Wadsworth Incident”. Also known as the 2x RWC Jonathan jacket.  My pink, silver and black show jacket. We say it’s an incident, cuz I splurged on this one so badly that I had to put it into the show jacket protection program at Stonewall, so hubby never knew (well until now, if he reads this!).  Anyways, she had tagged me when it was posted for sale and she always said she would show in it one day as her finders fee. That day finally came. Btw - She wore it beautifully. πŸ”₯

6.  English surprise. Riding English on MGK was my biggest learning this week and I experienced the magic of a curb bit. It was so different to ride him this way.  I had to go from a single 10-minute practice ride to show ring the same day - and the experience was a game changer. ✅ Frustrating, but enabling.  Challenge excepted and (kinda) conquered.   

5.  Slaying. The young Stonewall youth riders were gonna “slay dos hos” - aka, the competition, in the ring. Every time someone rode into a class, we had our funny cat call. Not only did it provide a sense of camaraderie and solidarity, but it takes the edge off. Why not slay. I mean. Just go for it!

4. A shower. Donning flip flops, grabbing the shampoo and heading off to the Miller coliseum showers may make some take pause, but after a few, hot sweaty days…getting to enjoy the full pressure water πŸ’¦ and no time limits placed on your shower (due to camper grey water 🚿tank sizes) makes this otherwise normal, everyday proposition, a decadent treat.  You all agree, I know you do.  Warm long showers-yeah!

3.  Picking up tips. You learn that you are not the only one with doubts, fears and improvements to make. But you can learn quickly from everyone around you. I’m amazed how many people are willing to share. And, they share tips, as well as their fears and hopes. You’re reminded that it’s not just me or you - we’re all on this fabulous journey, made possible by the very special walking horse. πŸ“ 

2.  Spa time. Late at night when the aisles are empty and the only sound is from horses chewing hay, I love my midnight stall visits. Just being there with them, putting my hands all over my two boys makes me happy and builds a connection I otherwise never get with my “in training” horses being so far away. It’s in that touch and quiet alone time with my horses that I whisper my personal hopes and dreams - and they’re always met with a knowing and responsive sweet eye πŸ‘. 

1.  Cheering πŸ“£. While it feels good to hear your friends cheers, encourage or call your name when you’re in the ring, I think being someone’s cheerleader and support is twice as nice. Maybe because we know. And, in that knowledge-we understand how much meaning the encouraging clap, yell or whistle holds. The big hug, being the voice in an earpiece, a smile or knowing look when you win or lose, makes a difference  

So, yes I easily could have listed the top 25, 50, or 100 memories, but every time, these few would certainly rise to the very top.  Thank you to Whoa, Stonewall, Jessica Mast and my crazy, strong and wonderful village of show friends. YOU amaze me and make this journey the fantastic adventure it was meant to be. 

Friday, July 28, 2023

The Maiden Craze

The Maiden is like the debutante ball for two year old colts.  The coming out party and a jackpot event for the babies that have never been shown before.  It was started five years ago from an idea πŸ’‘ and a lot of bravado from Jessica Mast and Kyle Elliott - and it truly has taken the Tenneessee Walking Horse pleasure industry by storm. Just the kind of energy we needed!  The first maiden in 2019 brought 15 entries and the fifth annual event this year boasts 64 colts and fillies with a pot of over $50 Gs. 😳 That’s some serious cash and the largest payout class in walking horse history.  Plus this year the winner will receive a new Harris work saddle, silver bit, a pair of belt buckles plus a few more spoils. So, you can understand the major appeal.  


I have first hand experience in participating in the maiden. John Wick was one of the very first 15 inaugural colts to participate in 2019, and a few years ago MGK made his debut in the Maiden too. And, believe me it is a fun and exciting way to bring a new contender into their show career. What’s most fun is that you never know what else will compete since it’s their first ever show. Most are strategically trained and kept secretly concealed among the big pleasure barns until their big reveal. The gem can emerge from anywhere. Which adds all the more awe and intrigue to this amazing event. In addition the pot is split between the owner and trainer so the team behind each colt is driven and committed to save their best colts for the maiden event, as well as promote their entry!  And wowza, the photo shoots, ads, billboards, Facebook promotion and swag is everywhere this week.  Every one has a story, a hope and dream, and it’s faithful entourage.

Earlier this week on Wednesday night they held the preliminaries.  They split the entrants into four classes and ran four splits to select the top 6 per split and 4 wild cards to come back for the finals tonight.  So the field has been narrowed to the select 28 that will return to battle it out to become our fifth maiden winner - joining: Twenty four carrots, Jose’s twist of Gin, The maiden (yep, really), and Imagine Dragons.  All these horses continue to be among the top show horses today. So, you may say the the maiden challenge is the launching pad and a golden path to a lucrative show career.  

Right now every trainer is making their final preparations and wrapping up their final practice ride on their contender.  I’m sure horses are being checked over and triple checked, horse shoes are being tightened, bits being reconsidered, boots being polished and outfits being carefully selected to bring the final polish and pizzazz to their entry.  Letting no detail go unattended.  They are getting themselves in the zone and encouraging each other to ride hard among the trainer set.

Owners are posting photos, telling their stories of how they got their entry to all who ask, and giving and receiving congratulations and best luck wishes to each other. And, probably doing a lot of nail biting as they check that all is well with their trainers and 2-year olds.  

The breeders and farms are talking statistics and pimping their stallion’s young contenders. Sponsors are being thanked.  The publishers and editors and video crews are getting their stories and readying equipment.  Marty and Jennifer are double checking camera lenses and lighting to ensure they capture all the big moments. I’m sure our organist is picking music and anthem singer is practicing vocals.  And the show team behind the scenes is setting up so all goes mysteriously smoothly.  Thank you to all - this wouldn’t be possible without every one of you!

Among everyone else there is a hum of static and excitement in the air.  Around each corner, across the stall aisles, and inside every camper, the top personal favorites are being discussed and debated.  I’m sure YOU have your favorite picked, I know I have my top choices already.  I bet a few ownership papers have, are, or soon will change hands, which will set off even more excitement and ringside water cooler talk. Yep! The energy is palatable everywhere.

For now, I leave this post here.  We’re just hours away from Maiden Go Time.  And one little sweet faced colt or filly is just about to be crowned the maiden for 2023 and be added to the golden maiden roster. 

Which one will it be?  

All we know for sure is that the trainers will ride hard, and the crowd will cheer loudly.  And in the end - it’s up to the judges to select the best this evening. Bless them!



Tuesday, July 25, 2023

Girls Gone English

Sunday I ended up with a scratched class, as John showed up not feeling well in the warmup ring. He started pawing and fussing and looked like he was trying to lay down. In the end we think it was the heat and a tight girth that got him upset, (not colic) but I didn’t want to take any chances and risk it. So back to his stall he went. We have a few other classes coming up this week and hopefully some electrolytes and rest will do the trick. I swung by a number of times that evening and the next morning to peek in on him and he simply looked back at me and licked my hand - so all seemed back to normal.  

I was disappointed we missed a ride together out in the Miller coliseum, but relieved he was okay ✅.  John’s a fun ride, my elegant boy. And the class we were to be in still had over 20 entries, despite being one less without us. Always makes you wonder how we could have placed.  I spent the evening hanging out, cheering on Terry for her class.  We’re in the same division so it was a nice opportunity to see her ride in her class from the rail, versus being in the same class.  She has a really nice new horsey this year and had a great ride. After the evening set of classes were over, we  closed out the night talking over a 🍷glass of wine, appetizers and catching up on the latest news with Tami.  

Monday the plan was to ride English.  And while I used to almost exclusively ride English in the past, it’s been a year since we pulled out the English saddle and suit.  I had packed my black suit with white tie and vest for a clean classic look. John got white ribbons in his mane. Together we looked like a tuxedo. Lol. 

Mackenzie warmed John up. He started a little tight but in no time she had him looking good. So it was my turn to take a practice spin before the class. I climbed into the saddle and it felt weird to be in an English saddle, but good. I had enough suede in my jods to give me a grip, and the saddle is nice and wide with a deep seat, so I felt fairly secure. I had purchased this saddle last year (thanks Jared!) as an upgrade gift to myself. 

Once I was seated, I backed up John and swung around and into the moving practice ring traffic. I walked the loop a few times and then Mack rode by and said I can flat walk him when I’m ready. No time like the present. I collected him and he went right to business. He’s a smooth operator and I felt comfortable in the saddle but my feet were floating a bit above the stirrups, so I pulled back into our barn’s area and Carol helped raise the stirrups up a hole. That was just enough to get me situated right. By that time, our class was called and off we went into the ring.  

John felt good in the soft footing as I entered and went down the rail and into the curve. There would be 16 or 17 horses in the class so I slowed and then stopped to await everyone’s entry. When they closed the gate it was all business. John did his thing and I sat back and enjoyed it. Later Mariah said she could tell I knew I was having a good ride as I had a grin on my face the whole time. Well, he’s a lot to grin about, no matter the ribbon. And more than anything I was just so happy to be riding Mr Wick after him not feeling well the day before. When the ribbons were called we ended up 7th - so about in the middle. Terry got fifth or sixth — so we both got in the ribbons out of that big class. Yeah!  

On Tuesday we rode western. It was another large class. As we entered the ring my ear piece went out. (I know!) All I heard was “take that line all the way down,” and then silence the rest of my class. So, I just rode and made my typical corrections etc. While I didn’t have real-time feedback during the class, I did think we had a decent ride. We had one little flub, but it was farther down the rail so I hoped we weren’t seen by a judge. When I pulled into the lineup, I slid up beside Julie. I winked at her and she laughed at me. While in the lineup we chatted and Marty took our photos. I gave her rabbit ears and Marty had us get closer and took a photo of the two of us together. I need to go find those photos. Shenanigans in the lineup.

Julie won that class and I got fourth. I was tickled, especially since I truly rode that class by myself without coaching. When I came out of the ring Mackenzie said I was the first black horse they picked, as 1st through 3rd were all white horses. Lol. I told her the ear piece was out and I couldn’t hear her and she was surprised because she said I had done everything she had said to do, right when she said it.  Whoop!  Maybe I am trained a lil now.  πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ™Œ  

On Wednesday we switched to MGK. This would be our very first time English, ever.  Jessica let me do a practice ride in the morning, so I met her up in the arena.  She warmed up MGK and he looked good.  By the time it was my turn, the tractor pulled into the arena to groom the footing so we had to move out the the practice ring.  I climbed aboard MGK and felt a bit intimidated. He’s a big mover and the saddle felt slippery under my jeans.  πŸ’© Jessica told me he was in a curb and would feel different.  She wasn’t kidding!  While I’m used to taking quite a bit of hold of him in western, now the bit did most of the work and I had to hold the reins still and with no pressure. Ughh, a last minute switcharoo on me  πŸ˜‚.  I had been pumping myself up to really, really show up to ride aggressively today, and now everything changed.  Okay I can do this (maybe).  

I started up and he felt like a totally different horse  I tried to do what Jessica coached me to do, and get my seat, and steer through other horses, and keep him going when a dog appeared through a door, and when we passed the scary victory photo area, and when my foot slipped off the left stirrup, and when the horses in front of us stopped, and when Jessica yelled I had to go all the way around perfectly without stopping or flubbing, and when I think I stopped anyways so I didn’t run into Ryan, and when he tripped a lil and my bad hands startled him, and even though I said I could do this I desperately knew it was going to all be a crazy mess.  But then, I didn’t die. 🫣 And while I fear my hands will not be soft enough tonight, I will go back to my camper and practice this riding in my head again and again before tonight.  I can do this!  


MGK’s class was after the maiden preliminaries.  (I’ll cover the maiden championship in a separate post.). We went back to the camper after the maiden and I got back into my English suit.  I sat and reran the practice ride in my head a few more times and then put on my derby and walked over to the warm up.  I watched a few classes and once MGK was brought through DQP, Jessica was there warming him up to get him ready for our class. He’s a big mover and looked good.  Scott says MGK is the best horse we’ve ever had that is a true trail competitor-that I have the tool to do well.  Now, it’s up to me not to screw this dang thing up. I can do this. 

Once he was warmed up, I climbed up into the saddle, and team stonewall made sure my jod bells and spurs were set and my number was on.  Jessica gave me a few key instructions.  She noted she had adjusted the bit a little, so it may feel better than earlier to me.  After going around the practice ring a few times, I agreed, not quite as sensitive as earlier.  I just might be more likely to do this thing.  Lol  πŸ˜‚  

We lined up to go in and Jessica walked us up and released us into the ring. Plus, my entourage of Mack, Tami, Mariah, Carol and others from the barn family were with us!  MGK collected and off we went.  This time new batteries in my walkie-talkies ensured I would have Jessica’s company in my ear on this ride. Whew! 

During our ride, Jessica asked me to move my hands up and closer.  And I kept my leg on him with a bit of spur.  He set himself on the bit nicely and I focused on balancing in that slippery saddle.  lol.  Oh! Please don’t fall off! I made the first way of the ring still in the saddle.  MGK is big so I kept focusing on sitting up on him and I really tried to relax - but my mind was having none of that! On the reverse I tried to get a better seat before taking off down the rail. And pushed my feet down into the stirrups.  Along the straight away I hit a sweet spot that I call MGK’s rubber-band man “feel” and for the first time I gained a little confidence that I was doing okay.  Jessica continued to remind me to keep my hands up (note in western it’s the opposite-keep them down. πŸ€”πŸ€¦πŸ»‍♀️) and soft and to use the legs my mama gave me.  After another lap around, it was line up time.  For the record, I stayed in the saddle and I really didn’t have a major mistake. MGK seemed pretty consistent and all in all I think a good ride on his part.  On mine, I felt kinda sloppy and I can do better.  The judges honored us with a reserve ribbon!  I’ll take a second place for our first ever English episode!  πŸ’πŸ»‍♀️ I might even try this again as MGK was easier in my hands this way, just as Jessica had said.  Note to self, ask for practice lessons back at barn in English every other time so I become comfortable.  

Sunday, July 23, 2023

2023 International ~ A Party of the 45th Kind

Hello. Remember me?  It’s been a long time since I blogged my horsey adventures. In fact, April 2019 was my last blog entry…..it was PC (Pre COVID).  Wow 4 years! A lot of crazy stuff has happened in 4 years. 😷 

My last post was when I had just acquired John Wick. And this morning I rode him for practice and Jessica mentioned it’s his fifth year being here.  The first time was when he made his world debut as one of the very first 15 maiden contenders!!! Time flies!  The maiden competition has totally caught fire….bringing 64 entries this year!  (The maiden class is for 2 year old colts that have never been shown - it’s like a debutante ball for young walking horses.) Since then, to catch you up, today John is 6 and we call him WC 2xRWC John Wick. He’s got titles. πŸ₯°.  I also have a 4yo, Machine Gun Kelly. And the “boyz” are here at Miller and the 45th International is commencing.  My plan is to blog about the week’s shenanigans - so stay tuned.  

I flew in yesterday with Terry and we moved into our fancy glamper, unpacked and provisioned. Oh and we picked up our $820M dollar lottery ticket “opportunity” - just in case. Ya gotta be in it to win it!   (Reminder to self-I need to pull out my tickets and check my numbers. I heard that while the big pot is rolling forward, a number of $1M winners did win. I’d be happy with that!). Lol. 

Last night, after a quick yummy mango crab dragon roll sushi 🍣 dinner, (I know, delish!) we watched a special new adp challenge, which offered a nice purse. It was very well received, with 20-some entries and a nice sized audience!  Jessica and Kyle have once again breathed new life into the pleasure show circuit - first with the maiden and now the adp versatility challenge. It’ll be interesting to see what comes next. If YOU have an idea…bring it forward!

Walking around the grounds there is already tons of activity. They sold out of all camper lots and stalls and are setting entry records already as well. The Tennessee walking horse pleasure division is hot right now and it’s so exciting to see this return. AC (After COVID) era is looking great and the horses are pretty amazing too, from what I could see out in the practice ring this morning. 

So,  I’ll stop here.  It’s the morning of Day 1 of the 2023 International.  The week’s weather forecast will be low 90s and sunny skies. The center ring looks amazing, the winners circle ⭕️ looks like an envious place to land, and there’s great energy in the air. 

Yeah!  Let’s go do this thing!